A Road Map

A Road Map

First, a word about terminology, I have tried to be as explicit
and specific as possible in this book. When I use the term anal
sex, I mean it to encompass all forms of anal eroticism,
including manual stimulation, oral stimulation, and anal
penetration of all kinds Video Porno ,.

The first chapter explores myths and facts about anal sex.
The anal taboo and anal sex myths are both prevalent and
well-rooted in American society. These myths, based on fear
more than fact, often prevent people from voicing their anal
desires and acting on those desires. The first chapter is a good
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place to begin exploring these myths more closely. If we
challenge the deeply ingrained notions behind them and
discover how they have affected our own attitudes about the
anus and its erotic potential, we can begin to replace those
myths with truths. In addition, you may find the facts useful for
communicating about anal sex and Porno XXX dispelling any
misinformation you or your partner may have.
In the second chapter, I provide a brief anatomy lesson,
covering related muscles and body parts, and encourage you to
get better aquainted with your anus. In addition, I discuss some
basics—hygiene, relaxation, safety—you should know about
before beginning anal exploration of any kind to ensure that
you're taking good care of your body.
In chapter 3, I discuss some of the ways we can take care
of ourselves emotionally and psychologically, covering topics
like desire, communication, fear, and patience. In addition, I
explore some of the issues that may come up during anal sex
with a partner, including fantasy, power dynamics, and trust.
Chapter 4 includes Video Sex a discussion of latex condoms, gloves,
and dental dams as well as different kinds of lubricants. There
is a guide to the various tools you can use to enhance anal
pleasure, including butt plugs, vibrators, dildos, and anal beads,
and some hints about how to assess the safety of any other tool
you're thinking of using for anal sex.

You may feel inclined to skip right away to chapters 5-10,
but be patient; it's important to read the preceding chapters first
to ensure you are well prepared for anal sex. Chapters 5-10
coverHard Sex the ins and outs of anal masturbation, analingus (also
called rimming), insertive anal penetration, and receptive anal
penetration, as well as other activities, including enemas (or
anal douching), shaving the anal area, anal fisting (inserting
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a hand in someone's rectum), S/M and anal play, and gender
play.
Chapter 11 is an important one for everyone to read. It
covers general anal health and how to maintain a healthy,
happy anus. In addition, I discuss several common sexually
transmitted diseases (STDs), how they are transmitted, general
symptoms and treatments, HIV, AIDS, and safer sex practices.
The information about various diseases is written specifically
as it relates to anal sexuality.
Throughout the book, I have included brief excerpts from
erotic literature and quotes from popular books and magazines.
My research references recent, well-known sex studies and
books. I hope these brief erotic passages will encourage you to
enact your own anal fantasies and enjoy the full range of anal
eroticism. I have also included exercises designed to help you
explore and practice some of the topics discussed. At the end
of the book, I have included a resource guide, with selected
books and other sources for people who want to learn more
about anal sex.
It is time for anal sex to come out of our closets. The more
dialogue and information we initiate, the more we can all have
our sexual desires and practices validated and can really begin
to enhance our sex lives with ideas, techniques, and facts about
anal sex. I want this book to empower women with knowledge
about our bodies and sexualities. I want women to have safe
and pleasurable anal sex with ourselves and our partners. And,
while the cover touts this book as the "Ultimate Guide," I don't
consider it the final word by any means. I hope it is just the
beginning—the beginning of more discussion, more research,
more investigation, and more exploration of the world of anal
sexuality.
I hope beginners, fans, and experts alike will use and
enjoy this book to help fulfill, improve, and enhance their
explorations of anal sex.Tube Porno
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I know that the moment I discovered anal eroticism and shared
it with a lover was a huge turning point in my erotic life. And it
still drives me crazy after all this time.